A Gentle Farewell

I am sad to say that my time in Ireland has come to an end.  Sitting on the plane as I write this, I am surrounded by the familiar American accent.  While I am happy to be going home to my wonderful family and friends, I am also already homesick for Ireland.  It is a peculiar feeling, really.  The desire to be in two places at once is a difficult emotion.  I have begun to make a list of the things I will miss most about Ireland.  Here are just a few:

The accents.  I have long been a lover of Irish accents, even before my venture to the island.  To me it sounds like a beautiful breathy song.  Having the opportunity to hear this day in and day out was one of my favorite parts about living in Ireland.

The people.  I can honestly say that I have never met a more kind and giving culture of people than the Irish.  From day one, I was welcomed to their country with open arms.  For them, no one is a stranger and to treat a person as such would be, as they would put it, “bad form.”  The ones whom I have the great honor of calling my friends have touched my heart in such a way that I shall never forget.

The landscape.  Ireland is truly just as picturesque as you could imagine.  I was lucky to live next to one of the most beautiful beaches I have ever seen, Ballybunion.  I may be biased, but Kerry has to be the most breathtaking county in Ireland.  And I must say that out of all the towns I visited in Ireland, Listowel was certainly my favorite.  I was incredibly lucky to be placed in the center of such a colorful and bustling town.

The pubs.  Particularly Kevin Broderick’s.  I love how the pubs are a wonderful mix of young and old—some of the best conversations I had while in Ireland were in these pubs.

My students.  I know that as an educator, it is my role to impart knowledge.  However, these girls taught me more than I could have ever imagined.  They somehow managed to both humble and make me feel incredibly special at the same time.  Because of them, I have improved not only as a teacher, but as a person.  I will be forever grateful for them.

I spent my last Irish night in a seaside Dublin hotel.  At sunset I took a stroll on the beach to watch the incredible mix of blues, purples, pinks, and oranges in the sky.  The wind whipping my hair back and forth, I could feel the soft sand pelting my shins.  I lifted my wingspan and could almost imagine myself flying.  Ireland has given me so much.  Before I came here, I was exhausted both emotionally and physically.  Now I am going home feeling as though my soul has been recharged.  In many ways I am a changed person.  A great friend of mine who resides in London told me that I am very likely to go back to my American ways once I return to Kentucky.  Perhaps she is right, but I hope I will never forget this feeling of satisfaction.  Because of this experience I have more confidence in myself, and I don’t think that is something that can easily be washed away.  Yes, I am sad to leave, but I know that my time here is finished—at least for now. 

 A farewell sunset in Dublin.

A Peep Through the Blinds

I am totally like the creepy old lady who watches people from her window.  But I can’t help it!  Watching Listowel from the comfort of my second-floor living room window is one of my favorite past times.  I have a wonderfully wide windowsill which allows me to turn it into a desk once I pull a stool up.  I sit on my laptop and watch as Listowel bustles beneath me.

 My favorite pub, Kevin Broderick’s is situated across the street from me and is the source of much of my entertainment.  During the weekdays the pub is filled with an older crowd—the same old men and women frequent this bar on a daily basis.  One man in particular always seems to catch my eye.  He always wears a full suit and tie.  But why? I wonder.  Surely he is retired.  I suppose he does not see this as a reason to look anything less than his best.  The nights typically bring a younger crowd around the pub, and I giggle myself as the twenty-something men and women do their best to gain each other’s interest.  I have heard some impressive renditions of Maroon 5’s “She Will Be Loved” at three in the morning.  The pub lends the free space above to anyone in town who needs to practice for upcoming plays.  As I am writing this, I am watching a rehearsal occur.  From my view, it looks as though the characters are having a disagreement at the breakfast table.  I suppose I’ll have to head down to St. John’s Theatre this weekend to see if I’m correct.

A line of honking cars will alert you to any win that Ireland may have in a sporting match.  Men hang outside the windows cheering and waving their team’s flag.  My favorite part is watching the elderly women come outside the pubs to clap as the cars pass—quite a sweet scene, really.  And occasionally you will hear the clomping of horse hooves on the pavement.  The sound always sends me running to the window so that I can watch the beautiful beast pull its owner in a sporty carriage from behind.  I resist the urge to run downstairs and request a ride.

Looks like the actors just pulled the curtain to the window across the street.  Did they spot me?  Oh well…

The view from my window.

Thank God for Eggs

I’ve always been a firm believer of the idea that things happen for a reason.  No matter how difficult or upsetting a circumstance may seem, I can normally reflect back upon it and understand why it had to happen.  After all, life is just a series of experiences.  It’s the “messy bits” that we tend to learn the most from.

Listowel is a town that I feel incredibly safe in.  I can go jogging at night without fear (which is something I probably wouldn’t do in Kentucky).  However, Limerick does not have such a safe reputation.  When I decided to spend the weekend there with my girlfriends from back home, the teachers at school all warned me to be careful.  “Make sure you girls stick together, now,” they cautioned.  How bad could it be? I wondered.

Friday evening we caught the bus from Listowel to Limerick.  We should have known there would be trouble when an intoxicated man holding a beer can set next to us.  I won’t bore you with his drunken ramblings, but let’s just say we quickly became his target for harassment until the next stop twenty minutes away.  I think everyone on the bus breathed a sigh of relief when he got off the bus.  A pretty blonde girl around our age looked at us, mortified, and asked, “Are you girls okay?  I promise not all Irish people are like that.”  I assured her that this was the first time I had encountered anyone like that in three months of being in Ireland. 

We all felt a little irked afterwards, but did our best to shake it off when we finally arrived in Limerick.  After settling into our hotel room a couple miles outside the city center, we realized how hungry we were.  The bus stop was only a short walk away and, although it was dark, it still wasn’t too late.  We decided to not allow a drunken fool ruin our night, so we took off for the stop.  We sat down on the bench and the sky seemed to be a lot darker than it was before—we were the only people in sight.  Suddenly a car with three teenage boys pulled up to the stop.  They rolled down their windows and I felt something hard hit my shin.  What was it?  A block of ice?  A rock?  I looked down and saw a smashed egg’s yolk running down both my legs.  I’m not sure who looked more surprised, us or them.  Were they disappointed by our lack of reaction, or could they, themselves, not believe what they had just done?  They quickly spun away as I silently kicked the lingering shell from my boots.  Then I reacted in a way that I had not expected—I laughed.  And once I started, I couldn’t stop.  My friends cracked up (excuse the pun) too as we crossed the road and started walking toward the gas station down the road.  We soon saw the bus approach the stop, but by that time it was too late to catch it.

We had nearly reached the gas station when a group of about ten men in their twenties approached on the other side of the road.  Their whistles and shouts of approval were enough to send us into a sprint the rest of the way to the station.  Inside and safe, I wiped the yolk from myself and the station attendant called a cab for us—the feeling of security was well worth the cost. 

I keep replaying that night over and over in my head.  My friend said, “Maybe that egg was a blessing in disguise.”  And you know something?  I think she’s right.  Maybe we weren’t meant to get on that bus—a much worse fate could have been waiting for us at the next stop.  Or, perhaps, the egg was a way to get us on the other side of the road and away from the group of hooting men.  So instead of feeling angry when I look down at the egg-shaped bruise that still remains on my shin, I thank God.

 Limerick is not at all intimidating during the day!  Quite pretty.

Spring is for Lovers

What is it about spring that makes us want to fall in love?  It is as if the sudden burst of sunshine warms the chill from our hearts after a disappointing Valentine season.  Or, perhaps, is it the enthusiastic chirping of birds and the first sighting of lambs in the fields?  As I admire the beautiful scenery of Ireland, I often think that this would be a wonderful place to fall in love.  How come it hasn’t happened for me yet? I wonder.  It always seems so easy for everyone else.  I am in the phase of my life where many of my friends are getting married and having children.  A quick glance at my Facebook news feed reveals profile pictures of infants and weddings.

Today I walked down to the river to bask in the warm weather.  Transfixed by the glittering water, my concentration was broken by a passing golden retriever who had just gone for a swim.  I smiled as he went running for his owner, flicking the water from his fur.  As I took a deep breath of the sweet scent of freshly mown grass, it occurred to me that I am already in love.  I am in love with the way water rushes over the rocks in riverbeds.  I am in love with the way my skin seems to absorb sunlight after months of Vitamin D deprivation.  I am in love with stray dogs, Irish accents, and my cheeky students.  But most of all, I am in love with this time in my life and all of its imperfections.

 How could you not fall in love with this?

Just Go With It

I do not like going to the movies by myself.  It’s true.  I believe the distaste for doing so began when I saw 27 Dresses by myself on a Friday night—I know, I know, that was just plain stupid.  I remember feeling like a lonely loser, only, at the time, I had a boyfriend.  He refused to see the movie and I said, “Fine, I’ll go alone.”  That was the first and last time I went to a movie by myself.  That is, until tonight.

Sitting in my apartment, I realized I had run out of things to do.  Nap?  Check.  Eat? Check.  Watch horrible Irish soap operas?  Check.  Do some Facebook stalking (oh, come on people, we all do it)?  Check, check, check.  I had a sudden craving to watch something American, and seeing as I do not have a DVD player here, I realized I would have to go to the cinema.    So, just like I would at home, I threw a bottle of water and a package of gummies into my purse and headed out to watch Just Go With It.  It felt good to see the familiar faces of Adam Sandler and Jennifer Aniston.  The movie ended up being quite good, actually.  Completely predictable, but that’s how I like it.  I sat in the theater, feeling comfortable with being by myself.  After the movie, I slowly meandered in the direction of my apartment, enjoying the brisk spring evening.  As I lifted my face to the sky, I closed my eyes and realized something—I am at peace here.

My brother said to me once, “You can’t stand to be alone.  You can’t stand to just sit with your thoughts.”  For so long, this was very true.  I have always kept myself extremely busy, often times spreading myself too thin.  And, in many ways, I think that this was a way of running away from myself—go so fast that you can’t stop to process your thoughts.  Coming to Ireland has forced me to slow down and sit with my mind.  I eat breakfast, dinner, and lunch with myself, I go running with myself, I ride the bus with myself, I go shopping with myself, and now I go to the movies with myself.  I am my sole companion and, in the process, have gotten to know myself in a way that I never thought possible.  That is not to say that this has not come without moments of sadness and self-pity.  But when I start feeling sorry for myself, I stop and remember how lucky I am to be here.  So many people dream about doing something like this—there is much to be grateful for.  And this state of aloneness is necessary.  Had I come to Ireland with a friend/boyfriend/husband, this experience would be completely different, and probably not nearly as profound.  It would be corny to say that I traveled to Europe to “find myself,” but, like it or not, these experiences do tend to lead one down the road of self-discovery.  And then I remember my family and friends back home.  Being alone is so much easier when you know that you have an incredible support group like I do.

It turns out seeing a movie solo is not so bad, after all.

Ugg Boots and Sperry Loafers -- It's All the Same

I just realized that I have gone this entire time without actually explaining why I am in Ireland.  I am completing my masters in education and I have come to Ireland to do my student teaching in the local Catholic all-girls secondary school.  Considering I am not Catholic and had never stepped foot inside a single-sex school before, coming here was certainly a transition.  But let me tell you, the students are incredible.

The first day in one of my classes, I had an out-of-body experience.  My cooperating teacher had not yet arrived, so when I walked through the door, the students were sitting on their desks, eating snacks, and chatting away.  As soon as they spotted me, they immediately jumped to their seats, put their bags away, and waited quietly for me to approach the front of the room and speak.  I had never experienced anything quite like this before.  At first the students were little shy around me, but as they became more comfortable, they wanted to know all about America.  And what were they most curious about?  Cheerleaders.

“Miss, do you really have cheerleaders in America?”

“Do they wear their uniforms to school everyday like they do on television?”

“Do they only date the jocks?”

They listened with fascination as I described what cheerleaders in America were really like.  It had never dawned on me that there are no cheerleaders in Ireland.

“Oh, I want to be a cheerleader!” one girl sighed.  Several others also sighed in unison.

“Miss, were you a cheerleader?” another asked.

I paused for a moment—should I admit to it, or should I say no? 

“Yes,” I replied finally.  All the girls erupted with joy.

And I have gotten some other funny questions, including, but not limited to:

“Miss, who’s your favorite singer?  Is it Justin Bieber?”  (She was quite disappointed when I told her that he was not.)

“Do teenagers in America look older than us?  They look so old on My Super Sweet 16.”

“Do you just eat fried chicken in Kentucky?”

“Are there really ‘cliques’ in American secondary schools?”

“Have you ever met anyone famous?” (I don’t think they quite realize that Kentucky is not exactly California).

The other day, one of the girls asked me how Irish teenagers are different from American teenagers.  My answer?  Not very.  Just like back home, Irish teenagers wear their Ugg boots and Sperry loafers, giggle incessantly about boys in the halls between classes, sneak their phones into school, gorge themselves on candy, roll up their uniform skirts when the nuns aren’t looking, and are constantly fighting for their right to be independent.  It’s comforting to see that this is all a part of growing up, no matter where you’re from.  And I love that I can have a part in this stage of their lives.

A Ruff Life in Ireland

The people of Listowel love their animals.  Go for a walk in the park and you will find plenty of hounds running around without leashes, tongues hanging, tails wagging.  A quick sharp whistle from their owner sends them dashing back, knowing exactly who they belong to.  It’s these times that I miss my dog the most.

But there are also dogs in Listowel that are not so lucky.  For a few hours every afternoon, the same collie walks into town and stands in front of the pub across the street from my apartment.  He is brown and dingy white with kind eyes and walks with a limp.  He stays out of the way of pedestrians and never tries to go inside the pubs.  He just stands there, looking very sad and lonely, and occasionally sneaks a drink of water from a nearby water drain. 

Yesterday I came across another stray as I was walking home from the grocery store.  This one was a brown lab and was soaking wet.  It had not rained, so I was very curious as to how he had become so drenched.  Next to him lay a wet tree branch that had to have weighed fifteen pounds—he must have gone swimming for it in the river that runs through town.  As I approached, he nudged the branch in my direction, looked me in the eye, and whimpered.  This dog was not a beggar; he was working for his food.  I reached in my handbag and retrieved a dog biscuit.  The dog politely waited for me to lay it on the ground in front of him before seizing it hungrily. 

Everyday I resist the urge to pull these sweet babies into my tiny apartment and shower them with affection.  Although I am not in the position to become their foster mother, I will continue to buy treats for them and pray that they are able to find shelter at night.  I wish there was more that I could do. 

A Bit of Craic

“When did you come to Ireland?”

“Two days ago.”

“Really?  And have you had good crack?”

“Uh….what?”

I later found out that the kind of crack this nice stranger was referring to was craic, which means fun.  The Irish, especially those under the age of thirty, use this word more than an American teenager uses “like.”  I have also learned that when someone says something is “class,” it means that something is very nice.  For example:

“Did you go on holiday to Dingle?”

“Yes, I did.  It was really class.”

If you want to know if there are any good looking men in a town, you ask if there is any talent.  I found this out when I was waiting at a bus stop one day.  I struck up a conversation with a woman from Cork and she was very curious about Listowel. 

“Is there any talent in Listowel?” she asked.

“Talent for what?” I responded.

“You know, good looking blokes.  Talent.”

“Oh!”

And here are some more translations for you:

Chips = French fries

Crisps = Potato chips

Spuds or Mash = Potatoes

Rashers = Bacon

Bangers = Sausage

White pudding = Solidified pig blood in a sausage casing

(Feel free to cringe, just as I did.)

In grocery stores, the eggs can be found unrefrigerated in the bread aisle (I bought some anyway and haven’t died...yet).  Peanut butter is extremely hard to find, and the label reads, “American Style.”  Also, coffee is found mostly in the form of instant.  I became very excited the other day when I found some real coffee grounds for a French press.

I have found that I have a difficult time with Irish doors.  There are knobs on just about all of them, but none of the knobs turn.  You basically have to push the door in exactly the right position to get it to open.  I have felt (and looked) like a fool many times while trying to open doors here.  But you could say that I have a love/hate relationship with Irish doors.  They may be impossible to open, but they are so beautiful!  Never have I seen so many different colors and unique door knockers.

Since coming to Listowel, I have not been able to find a converter for my curling iron and hair straightener.  Without the aid of these tools, my hair has been wild and curly.  At first I felt self-conscious about my style, but then I realized something: everyone’s hair is wild and curly here.  So I will enjoy this time of not having to worry about what my hair looks like.

Sure, I have had to make some lifestyle adjustments since moving to Ireland, but these adjustments have been minor.  It is easy to allow cultural differences to make one homesick, but I choose to embrace these differences, finding the humor and beauty in it.  After all, I didn’t come this far to find another America.

 Door photography is my new obsession.

I love this note.  The shop owner returned right when I took this picture.  She looked at me very strangely.

In Honor of Granny

This week I lost a very important woman in my life – Granny Aileen.  Before I left for Ireland, I visited her in the hospital.  She and I had a wonderful conversation about some of the many trips she had taken throughout her life.  Granny Aileen loved to travel almost as much as she loved food.  We joked that once I got back from Ireland, I would teach her how to river dance and she made me promise to tell her all about the food in Ireland.

Since I have been in Ireland, I have done quite a bit of cooking of my own.  In my grandmother’s honor, I made her famous chicken salad with grapes this week.  It was not as perfect as hers, but it tasted so much like home that I ate the entire batch in one day.  I have also made tacos, hot chicken and cheese sandwiches, and various pasta dishes.  My cooking skills are basic at best, but I am trying.  I can remember when I was a little girl, Granny Aileen told me that she could not boil water when she first got married (she was sixteen).  It is hard to imagine a time when she could not cook – this woman was a whiz in the kitchen.  Every Christmas and Easter she would cook enough for a small army, making the most amazing candies, cakes, and cookies.  There was nothing that she could not make.  I remind myself of this as I struggle to whip up a meal – skill will come with time. 

For Granny, family and food were her top priority.  And I have found this to be true for the Irish.  The day after Granny died, I learned that my Irish mother’s husband unexpectantly passed as well.  At the young age of 56, he had a heart attack.  I had been dealing with the grief of my grandmother’s passing fairly well until that point – I had been removed from the realities of death, but suddenly I was looking it straight in the eye.  I walked past the family’s drapery shop to find it closed with a black bow on the door’s handle.  The next day I went to the visitation.  As I paid my condolences to the family for their loss, I thought of nothing but my grandmother.  How I wanted to go home and be at her visitation.  I felt a deep guilt that I could not be there when she had been there for me throughout my entire life.

But since I cannot be home right now, I have decided to experience Ireland in her honor.  I will eat amazing food, have enriching experiences, and try to live life without regret.  As I stroll down the streets of Listowel, I can feel her walking with me, encouraging me to stop in every bakery and try all the different kinds of sweets.  She would love it here. 

 Granny Aileen

Grey's Anatomy and Michael Jackson

I have been in Ireland for exactly one week now, and I cannot remember a time when I have had this much free time to myself.  Today I purchased a little potted plant for my windowsill and am now considering getting a goldfish to put in my apartment.  Needless to say, I’m getting a bit lonely.

To ease the sting of loneliness, I made my way down to the pub next door, known as Con Dillon.  Walking in, it looked like a scene straight out of Leap Year.  There were four older men seated at the bar: one was talking on his cell phone, two were laughing loudly with one another, and the other was staring off into space.  I ordered a drink and snuggled into a corner with the book I toted along with me.  It was about that time when the bartender, a red-haired woman in her early thirties, switched the television channel over to Grey’s Anatomy.  The men all grumbled in unison.  The bartender quickly told them that if they wanted to drink, then they would have to sit through her favorite show.  Giggling to myself, I put my book down, happy to watch a bit of American television.

As the show progressed, the men became more involved, laughing at the show’s punch lines and growing upset when one of the leading ladies realized she was indeed in love, but it was too late.  The show ended with her love kissing a new girl.

“It won’t last,” one of the men at the bar said.  “It’s just lust.”

“No, it’s love, I’m tellin’ ya,” another piped in.

“Lust!” the first man argued.

The two bantered back and forth for quite a while.  I realized that Irish men are similar to American men: both claim they don’t like Grey’s Anatomy, when in reality they are quite interested.

Michael Jackson was also in attendance at Con Dillon.  One of the men at the bar politely introduced himself to me, saying that on Saturday nights he is known as Michael Jackson.  I smothered yet another laugh as I looked this man over.  He had to be in his mid-fifties (which, now that I think about it, Michael Jackson was also fifty when he died), white as could be, balding, and had a grey mustache.  I asked him if he had a white glove and could moonwalk.  He gave me a look as though I had just asked the obvious.

“Of course, love,” he said.

Soon after I said my good-byes and gathered up my belongings.

“Come back for Grey’s Anatomy next Tuesday, now,” called the bartender.

Absolutely.  I wouldn’t miss it for anything.

The Apartment Over Denmyr's

I laughed out loud when I saw the realtor write the address of my new apartment:

Apartment over Denmyr’s

William Street

Listowel

“No apartment number?” I asked.

“’Tis a small town,” she answered, “The postman’ll know where ‘tis.”

Listowel may be small in area, but no on can say that it is empty.  The town is bursting with little trinket shops, draperies (which I discovered is a place that sells anything textile: clothes, bedding, towels, etc.), pharmacies, and cafes galore.  I mean, they even sell Clinique makeup here, for goodness sake.  My apartment is located over a little trinket store known as Denmyr’s.  They sell jewelry, cards, and many other odds and ends.  I have found that stores here rarely specialize in just one thing – many stores sell a little bit of everything. 

My apartment (or flat, as they sometimes call them here) is a gem.  For the measly price of 75 euro per week, I live in a fully furnished one-bedroom double, with all hardwood floors, updated appliances, and a washer and dryer.  My landlord is such a sweet man.  I randomly mentioned that I needed to purchase a European hairdryer, and an hour later he was back at my door with one for me to borrow while I am here.  He also told me that he would bring me a desk and chair later so that I will have a place to do my studying.

I have found that I feel much less like a “grown up” in Listowel than I do back in Kentucky.  Everyone I meet is astounded that I am so far away from home on my own, and their general response is, “But you’re just a little thing!  Your poor mum!”  My first night in Listowel, I stayed in a lovely B&B called the North County House.  During breakfast the next morning, I told the owner that I would be staying for the next four months in an apartment down the street.  The owner, a beautiful and tall blonde lady, immediately went into maternal mode, telling me that if I ever needed anything – someone to talk to, food, money, anything – to let her know.  That morning, she became my Irish mother. 

Two days later, I was adopted by another mother.  On the bus ride from Tralee to Listowel, I met a lovely lady whose husband owns a drapery shop in Listowel.  After we got off of the bus, she very kindly helped me find the B&B and then went on her way.  Well, last night, right after I had finished washing the dishes from my supper, I got a buzz from downstairs – it was the lady from the bus!  How on earth did she find me?  I opened the door and there she stood with three bags full of items.  I was amazed as she pulled each goody out in my kitchen – a cake, a huge tin of chocolate biscuits, candy, oranges, orange juice, paper towels, aluminum foil, magazines, and a new electric blanket.  She had gathered all these items up for me, and then called the owner of the B&B, who then called the realtor in order to get my address.  Before she left, I gave her a hug and thanked her for her kindness.  She said, “Not at all, my dear.  But make sure you drink your orange juice.  You’re just a tiny thing and need the Vitamin C.”  Irish mother number two.

It’s been less than a week, and I have already met some of the nicest people that I have ever encountered.  My second Irish mother told me once that it’s my personality that attracts the good.  I beg to differ – the Irish are just that nice.

 Pretty Listowel

 View from my window

 Living room

 Kitchen

 Bedroom

The wonderful spread from my Irish mother #2

Cork, Not Cock

“Excuse me, but where is this train going?”

“Cock.”

“…Excuse me, where?”

“Cock.”

“Cock?”

“No Miss, C-O-R-K, Cork.”

“Oh!”

This was my first difficulty with the Irish accent.  I honestly have been able to understand everyone for the most part, but Dubliners’ accents are quite thick and they speak so quickly!  This poor man at the train station probably thought I was an idiot, but he smiled a toothless grin and was very helpful, nonetheless. 

And helpful is the best way to describe the Irish.  Everywhere I’ve been, strangers have gone out of their way to help me find where I need to go, lift luggage onto a train, and drag luggage off a train.  One man smacked his head pretty good on a rail as he hoisted my 50 pound suitcase onto the top shelf of a train luggage rack.  I apologized for this profusely (after all, he hurt himself while trying to help me), but he just gave a smiling wave and said, “Not at all, Miss.  Not a worry.”

The good thing about having a five-hour train ride across Ireland was getting to see the beautiful countryside.  Ireland looks so much like the horse farms in Kentucky – for a moment, I felt like I was back in Kentucky. 

I spent my first night in Tralee, the capitol of County Kerry.  It’s a cute little town with shops, restaurants, and small businesses.  The Christmas decorations are still up, so when I arrived, the town was completely lit up.  I stayed in a beautiful hotel called The Grand Hotel.  The lobby has a small fire with a sitting area and the bar serves delicious food, where I had my first good meal in Ireland – chicken curry with vegetables over rice and a glass of Heineken. 

Before I went to bed, I checked my email – I had over 35 emails and Facebook messages from my family and friends wishing me good luck during my travels.  One message was from my father (or Daddy, as I still call him).  In his note, he reminded me of how much I dreaded growing older when I was a little girl – after all, being a child was so much fun.  He then said something quite significant – that I should enjoy my adult years as much as I did my childhood. It occurred to me that I had never thought about adulthood in that way.  I always thought that being an adult meant having so much responsibility that life is no longer “fun.”  Although maturity does come with responsibility, it does not mean that we cannot still enjoy life.  And that is exactly what I am going to do.  I am going to take this life and see what all is has to offer.   

 Tralee at night.

 The outside of my beautiful hotel in Tralee.

 My room.

 The hardest bed I have ever slept on.

My reward for making it to Ireland.